Ok totally out of the blue, here... H just text to see if he still had permission to come over tomorrow, I replied yes. He said " Ok I can shovel the driveway if you want" I said that would be nice thank you. Then tells me he is going to his moms (I miss his mom) and then he will be here.

Just kinda strange. After last friday and him screaming at me about the money I transfed and ending our communication with "I just need some peace and quiet." I gave him just that. Then on Monday he reached out to me asking how I was feeling and asking about my DR. appoint, and to let him know when surgery was scheduled I kept my responses short and to the point. Dr. appointment was Tuesday, I waited till wednesday and sent him a simple text, Surgery on Monday and I have taxes ready. He kept the convo going by telling me a funny story about one of our friends gallbladder surgery, and said he could stop on Saturday. So not sure why he reached out to me just now
I guess leaving him alone did something.. or its just his guilt, because he knows that the snowblower drags me around and with my back its hard to shovel. hmmm I know whats the saying, believe nothing they say and half of what they do...??