Josh, sounds like some really tough times! I can really relate to NGS and her lack of responsiveness.
You are getting good help. Read it more than once and take time to digest.
I think they might’ve been mentioned but
1. Read love must be tough
2. And Intimacy & desire
Imo you NEEEED both of those books for yourself.


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021