The interesting thing about T is that when you read his posts he talks about wanting someone that will stick by him no matter what and he doesn’t see the karma that he’s getting back from his situation.
I get you want spouses who leave broken relationships to face "karma", and it's a challenge for you that 11yrs later I have no regrets. My ex was abusive. That's not the "'Til Death Do Us Part" I was or am looking for.
If the relationship was bad or abusive--kas has talked repeatedly about how she feels her XH vilified her to her children--the future can be much brighter on the other side. Especially if we work through our anger towards them, especially if we risk being vulnerable again, especially if we learn to select better partners. It's a journey.
