I don’t at all disagree. OTOH sone guys need to be kick started before they can run full blast. All I’m saying is it’s possible if you just suggest meeting he may pick up the ball and run with it full blast. Of course he may not in which case I’m back to totally agreeing you should pass him by. Taking one little step is not going all the work. It’s just something to consider. Don’t overcorrect too far. Don’t go from doing too much in an R to doing too little. Not saying you are just saying not to.
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