Jeez everybody - there ARE people who leave their marriages for legitimate reasons. That’s not the typical WASs most of us are dealing with here, but they do exist out in the wider world. I don’t see why this triggered people so much - there have been several LBSs here who decided that their temp support was a better deal than their divorce would be, and that they should sit with that - how is that different for the wife of the guy who raided by the feds? And D, we love you, but you yourself have admitted that you let your (likely mentally ill or addicted) exW take a terribly unfair deal in the divorce, how is that more moral?

Seems like it’s been “jump on Traveller” week when I respect that he’s been very open about his trauma and his struggles. How about we lighten up and give everyone the benefit of the doubt?