Originally Posted by Steve
GAL is your top priority right now. You do not do it to try to get her back, or to show her, you just go live your awesome life.

NGS is not a healthy way to approach relationships and other people.

Get a good IC and go to work on becoming the best Joshua you can be! And then you have to work on emotional detachment.

Finally, one thing that helped me in my sitch was to set a drop dead date.
Joshua, I look forward to hearing how many of these actionable steps you take in February.