Sounds closer at least. Still crazy to me he left and is living w/OW but fighting tooth & nail not to finalize the D.
I'm more surprised by the opposite, when the WAS chooses to finalize. Re-marrying tends to be a key motivator! The obvious question for the WAS is "Why bother?". I have two friends who are WAS (to lousy ex's) and have no plans to finalize their divorces, because their attorneys say the temporary settlement is better than the long-term settlement. If their ex's value the closure of that piece of paper, they'll have to sweeten the long-term settlement, or wait a few more years.
