I was looking for your last thread to post it on there but it seems you haven't got one going anymore, so sorry to put it here, but I just wanted to say that I think the support you've given on here for Cardinal is just really beautiful and genuine. This will have done her a lot of good.
@Cardinal,
Originally Posted by cardinal
I am fretting over the timing, whether she should just send it asap since he's already angry (the usual passive aggressive door-slamming and silent treatment, it seems). Or whether she should wait until I get back from a trip. I'm afraid of what he could do with the pets while I'm gone. I think this fear is irrational, but I feel weird not being here when all this is going down, on the heels of his getting angry about house guests. Then again, I really don't want to delay this any more!
As D always states, the answers will reveal itself in due time. You'll know what to do, and it will be the right decision, at least for you it will.
