may22,
Originally Posted by may22
BL, I would be careful not to impose your own wishes and situation upon Cardinal. You may look back and wish you had acted differently, but what is right for you may not be right for Cardinal.
Fair point. All of our perspectives are shaped by our own personal experiences and comments here can reflect those. It's up to Cardinal how she chooses to proceed. Just trying to lend support.


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