I very much agree with you and you’re revised guidelines. You are obligated if anything to let VP know. Then it’s up to him. He’s probably come in contact with dozens of people in your exact position whether he knows he has or not. It’s not your job to make decisions for him. It’s your job to give him the info and allow him to decide for himself. Why is everyone wanting to run everyone else’s life and make decisions for them? I don't get it. He’s no more at risk seeing you than going to work. You’re doing what you feel is best for you and placing some semblance of balance in your life. How in the H did we get to a place where we quarantine the well? Let him know, let him decide and if he’s fine with it, go and have fun!


DonH
Midwest
Me 56
WAW-EXW 55
Met 11/95 / Married 5/00
Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06
4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D