If your STBXH is routinely breaking the terms of your agreement it makes sense to notify your attorney and take appropriate action.
At lunch I had a breakthrough. He's actually shorted me 2 other times but I let it slide because it wasn't worth paying the legal fees. Having to put my rent on a credit card changes everything. I will gather everything and send it to my attorney.
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Do not let lateness become the norm. If the monies are to be received by the 15th and 31st, then they should be. Hold H accountable. I’d allow one time, and contact H that one time. After that, let the L deal with it.
I haven't spoken to him in 2.5 years so all communication is through attorneys. I've been letting him get away with it because I didn't want to pay my lawyer but now I have no choice. UGH
