Thanks guys and gals. I'm with the expert (Mike) on this one. The fact that she may see it as pressure is her problem, not mine. I mean, what's she going to do, cut me off? (Probably the last thing John Bobbitt thought before he drifted off to sleep).
Thanks for everyone who chimed in.
She just called. She had a big victory in court today. Maybe she'll want to celebrate! Or is it, "celibate"? Anyway, she's in a good mood, which is always nice.