Elbereth - Forgot I wanted to say something else…lol. I wasn’t sure I was ready when I first started either but I am so glad I took the chance. Even though I haven’t found my person, I do credit OLD and the guys I met along the way with being the last piece of the puzzle I needed to find to truly move on from my marriage. It wasn’t a rebound thing at all. It was just such a relief to know that life had not ended for me and there were still men out there who would find me attractive and see me as more than just my kids’ mother. At that time, it really did make all the difference and allowed me to take that giant step forward I needed to take. Hopefully it will do the same for you when/if you decide to give it a shot. (((HUGS)))