JoJo wrote: It's that old dammed if you do dammed if you don't scenario. ______________________________
Ditto. If your sitch is like mine, it wouldn't matter whether you apologize or not. You'll probably hear about it either way.
I think you should differentiate on this and know that you didn't mean to put pressure on your W, you just made a great joke. Any pressure she's feeling isn't about what you do anyway. It's about her conflict with what she knows she should be doing and what she does instead.
Mike - I'm not a therapist, but I have stayed at a Holiday Inn Express
