Yuck. Sorry that happened. He has passive-aggressive behaviour nailed, doesn’t he? You would think he would be more motivated to leave if he is going to be inviting women over. To be fair to her, she may very well have little to no idea about your situation.
I agree with Bttrfly. No point in getting into a contest of passive aggressive behaviour. This may just be a one off or it may be a sign of things to come. Either way, you can only control you and in my opinion, you did a fantastic job of it. What is that mantra around here?? When in doubt, do nothing. Consider all of your options and make a plan. No harm in asking him what his plans are in terms of a move out date as long as you phrase it as a question and not an accusation. If you are going to try to devise a plan with his cooperation, you are definitely going to want to do it when you’re not angry with something he just did. Choose your moment wisely.
