dealing with an MLCr is akin to living with an actively drinking or drugging substance abuser: they are incapable of consideration for others

However, indifference usually drives them mad. Expect a possible uptick in bad behavior. Stay the course on indifference. You lose every time you engage. You don't have to go to every fight you're invited to.

Getting into a passive aggressive battle won't help you feel any better. Explore other options - leaving the house for a while if he's got guests, talking to lawyer about any legal options you may have (thin, but possible) ...

Ultimately you cannot control the behavior of another and will only drive yourself mad trying. So, what do you need to live your best life? Write it out. Seeing it on paper helps solidify things. Then figure out how to get there. You may be surprised.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver