Quote: Corri: I'm not sure exactly what you're saying here. Are you saying that the no-pressure isn't working, or that applying pressure isn't going to work? I'm thinking that the only pressure I'm going to apply for the next month or so (two weeks of which we will be on vacation) is what Tom recommends, e.g. "let's ML" "No" "Okay, no problem (thought bubble saying 'your loss, babe.')"
I was saying the 'no pressure tactic' won't work because no matter what you do or don't do, she will feel pressure. I think deep down she knows the lack of sex is a real problem.
But you just cleared it up for me with that last statement, so, I'm with you now. Honestly, I'm so excited for you, I can't see straight. It is the most healthy of attitudes I've ever seen you post.
