Yeah, that’s the best. Even us strong girls need someone to lean on once in a while.
Be a little careful about judging chemistry on the first date. I’ve dated men that it was mega chemistry from the first date. And I’ve dated men where I didn’t feel the chemistry at first, but they won me over, over time. In retrospect, the longest relationships I’ve had have fallen into the second category.
Some people get more attractive over time as you get to know them better.
Now, if you felt there was no chemistry because you didn’t have similar values or goals, or because he was just someone you couldn’t ever imagine being physically attracted to, that’s a different matter. But some people deserve a second date before you make up your mind. Which category does he fall into?
