Quote: It rained a huge amount here in Missouri last night. One of our cats (outdoor cats) jumped up on the porch and his fur was wet. I mentioned to my W, "Look at that. It's been a long time since I've seen a pussy that wet." She didn't react. Now come on, I was trying to be funny, and if you had heard my voice, you would have known that. I suppose this will be thrown back at me as "pressure." If so, I think her barometer is just plain broken.
Hairdog, I think your wife will interpret that as pressure. I know during my "no pressure" stages, I tried little jabs and pokes like that and found out later from her that she took them as me pressuring her.
