Quote: "Look at that. It's been a long time since I've seen a pussy that wet."
Hairdog, that WAS funny, but no doubt your W read it as "more pressure". It would be hard for her not to. Funny as it was, no matter what the delivery, it WAS a "pointed comment". I'm sure she got it, and the meaning could not have escaped her. Are you SURE it didn't "violate" your "no pressure" stance? I do think it will be necessary for you to be able to get to a point where you can discuss sex with your W openly and honestly, and maybe that's a point on which you can "hold onto yourself" and make a unilateral move for greater differentiation... dunno...
