Quote: Tim, I'm feeling a little censored about PM references too because of some posts by other folks.
Dave,
I hope you and Tim and other people on this board keep posting about books, tapes, methods, etc. that help or provide insight. As a lurker, I found references to some books in addition to Michele's and read a couple such as Five Love Languages and His Needs, Her Needs. 5LL seems to be helpful to many people but it wasn't to me because I couldn't come up with just 1 or 2 love languages for me much less for my husband. However, His Needs, Her Needs, reinforced concepts from TSSM about sex being more than a physical itch type of need for husbands. It's also the one and only relationship book I could get my husband to read, which resulted in him telling me that he didn't feel any of his needs were being met, which was an eyeopener and catalyst for me to change.
Anyway, the point I'm trying to make is that Michele recommends trying different things to find something that works and she recommends other books, including PM. So, if you find something that's helping you and/or your relationship, there's a good chance that it will help somebody else, including anonymous lurkers.
Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there. Will Rogers
To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly be broken. C. S. Lewis
