kml,

I too am a big fan of After Life. I must confess I'm a little worried by the end of season 3. I hope this isn't upsetting, but the poem his friend read near the end is not one I had heard so I looked it up. Here it is:

Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep (Mary Elizabeth Frye)

Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am in a thousand winds that blow,
I am the softly falling snow.
I am the gentle showers of rain,
I am the fields of ripening grain.
I am in the morning hush,
I am in the graceful rush
Of beautiful birds in circling flight,
I am the starshine of the night.
I am in the flowers that bloom,
I am in a quiet room.
I am in the birds that sing,
I am in each lovely thing.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there. I do not die.

I don't think anyone here needed you to us you were beautiful, your heart did that a long time ago. We women are funny about our hair. My bestie, who is dealing with systemic health issues and stopped dying her hair and is extremely self-conscious about it, had someone comment on her Cruella Deville hair. When she told me about it I said, "What a compliment, in every interpretation I've ever seen of her, her hair is her most celebrated feature." Own that hair. Have a lovely day.