Of course it's not acceptable. Especially when I insist I am okay with "no" but she says she REALLY knows that deep within my brain I am NOT okay with it. Yes, she's basically withholding to punish me...and she's punishing me based on what she thinks is going on in my head...and really, what this is all about is that she feels she cannot adequately address my sexual (read, "animalistic") urges either in frequency, in level of passion, or in (excuse me for saying this) skill. As I've said before, she is a perfectionist and is successful at most everything she does. She doesn't think she's very good at sex, and this is so personal that she would rather not even try to improve than put herself on the line and make herself so vulnerable.
I have to feel sorry for her. She is scared but would never admit it.
Hairdog - who hopes his son's baseball game is cancelled tonight because of rain.
