hairdog, I must respectfully ask you to refrain from saying things like "taste of honey".
LOLOL

Whatcha tryin to do to me?!

P.S. I think that I would tell her that you are okay with rejection (cause I know you are) but that you are not okay with being rejected the MAJORITY of the time. Being rejected every single time but 4-5 times per year is your gripe, not that the rejection occurs--cause that is expected when there are two people with differing drives.
I have to say that she is a master at throwing the sh!t back upon you! Don't let her get away with that..she knows that she is talking crap and she will not respect you if you fall for it.

Speaking for myself, I HATE it when H takes my sh!t throwing and calls me on it. Ooh, it bothers me so bad! But there is also something very appealing about it..him standing up to me. AND..it changes the see-saw effect from being in my favor to being in his.
Just some food for thought.
Sorry that it is not as tasty as an English muffin with honey, which btw is one of my favorite breakfasts..