Thanks, Tom. I definitely feel like I'm a better person. Part of it is the PM reading and discussion. Part of it is reading the Buddhist literature, and some of the other literature; attitude adjustments I've made; this Executive Leadership Seminar I took; realizing I love her so very much and do not want to have an affair. The self-soothing of saying things to myself like, "your loss" and "what's she going to do, cut me off?"
I'm ready for a physical/emotional relationship. She'll figure it out, and I'll help her to the extent I can.
