Absolutely. Time and distance provide a much different perspective. Glad you're recognizing progress, and hope you know it will continue.
Ah now, I hope it will continue. Hard to see at the moment but looking back over the past couple of months and the changes from there, I trust it will improve more.
Originally Posted by BL42
...don't sign anything that's more a more favorable deal for her.
Absolutely not!
Originally Posted by BL42
Excellent! You're starting to feel your strength. Continue working on yourself and keep up the momentum. Also be aware there will be ups and downs throughout the process, so don't get too down on yourself when you experience those bad days.
I do feel like I've been through the wringer though. I'm glad you said about the ups and downs, been having those this week, I think as a result of the text she sent - gets into my head. Pushing through - hopefully it won't last too long.
Originally Posted by Spiral
Your ex may being nice because she wants something. But sometimes exes are simply cordial.
I doubt if she's sincerely trying to be cordial - she has done nothing but the opposite to that since she left.
Off out tonight to a quiz night with the guys from a mens group - hopefully I'll be able to answer some questions!
M(55), W(45) BD1: Apr-2011, BD2: 23-May-21, NC (15 June '21) Divorce Filed (16 July '21) --- When you can't see the light at the end of the tunnel, you need to trust it's there.
