Originally Posted by ScottB
as things have gone all the way south, I got a lot of peace of mind knowing that I tried everything in my power to save the marriage.
This is so important. We may not have been perfect in marriage or DB'ing but can rest easy knowing we did everything possible to save our marriage and keep our family together, both for ourselves and if/when our children ask someday.

Me:39 Ex-W:37
M:7 T: 9
S:6 D:3
BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20
OM1 affair ends: May '20
W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20
W files for D: Jul20
OM2 confirmed: 9/2020
Divorced: May '21