WAW Hired a Divorce Coach (Cont11.)

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I started with a Divorce Busting coach in 7/2018.
[quote=ScottB]I also scheduled a session some time ago with an author of another book who pulled no punches and said my STBEx was a spoiled brat.

Curious how you found the coaching sessions? I've seen them advertised here and other sites, but always wondered how helpful they were and whether people found them worth the cost.

I'm now reading a book called "Heartbreak" recommended to me by my IC. One of my biggest take aways from that book is how our childhood impacts our later relationships - specifically, I was used to getting a lot of negative attention from my mom as a kid growing up. That set me up to kind of be used to that kind of treatment from a "loving relationship." The book also basically outlined me as being co-dependent and needing to learn to relate differently and better for myself and others.

Interesting. I'm sure our childhood/parents/upbringing impact us much more than we ever realize.