I believe some people make up their minds what they will or will not do and stick to that regardless of what else is going on in their lives, and also refuse to look at things objectively or look at their own demons. Its real hard to look at yourself and face it, especially if its not all good. On that same note I know some people that will read everything they can get their hands on and be very knowledgeable in a subject, figure out whats wrong but have no idea how to go about changing it, nor do they want to change it.

Sounds like you handled that pretty well HD

Annette