My life is mostly kids and GAL. After my birthday weekend with the kids I was fortunate to also spend time with them Mon, Wed, and Fri during ExW's week. Then a very active "off" weekend. Friday evening a bunch of guys got together for our simulator golf league and then took me out for drinks afterwards for my birthday. Saturday AM gym work out, followed by ice skating in the afternoon, then dinner & drinks, sim golf, and playoff football games in the evening with two buddies. Sunday I went skiing by myself most of the day - struck up a conversation on the lift with a few folks- then watched football in the evening. My now-40 year old body felt a bit worn down by all that! The kids came back to me early due to weather and I flexed out of work yesterday for the MLK Holiday and we had a blast sledding both right in my yard and at a popular local hill. More good times & experiences with S6 & D3.
The only item of note on the D/ExW front is confirmation she's leaving her current employer (the bigger/main one in our area) to accept a job at the other similar employer in town. She previously did not want to work for them, but perhaps the work situation and rumor mill are a factor. Not seeking it out, but have been told administration and many coworkers aren't happy about her actions with the affair and she's no longer in favor for advancement opportunities; guess that's a "not my monkeys not my circus" situation. It is a supervisor position so that could explain it as well. The D agreement requires notification of employer change which ExW hasn't done yet, and a higher compensation level could potentially impact financial obligations, so we'll see if she fulfills her legal responsibility - I proactively reached out to my attorney with the info.
No updates/progress on the dating front. Finding very few OLD profiles with any promise, and even those I am potentially interested in don't seem to respond. I read some advice on Ginger & LH's threads; maybe I'll start my own discussion here at some point. The setups friends have mentioned have not come to fruition, and while I have a great career working remotely does not lend to meeting anyone in real life.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
