By the way, for all of those who think it’s great I am where I am with my ex and his wife, well, I still have triggers. Petty triggers.
When we talk about weekends and custody he always says “WE have her “ when he says we in regards to my daughter my heart races and my blood pressure goes up.
When he speaks of they vacation they are taking her on over spring break I get very upset. Heart rate and BP up again.
As you know, I empathize with your situation. I think those triggers are perfectly normal and completely understandable, and can imagine it still stings...even after so long. Sorry :-/
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
