yes. letting go and the sister concept, strong boundaries ... boundaries are for us, to remind us where we begin and end, where our responsibility truly lies, and even more importantly, where it doesn't.

without strong boundaries we cannot truly let go, because we always end up taking back something that's not really ours.

put another way: letting go is actually a gift we give both the person we're letting go of and ourselves. there's no teacher so powerful as experience.

Hope you sound wonderful! I'm so happy for you xoxoxo


M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver