LL, So do you think guys like our h's like the "chase" and that us being loving and available to them feels boring or something? I just can't figure this out but, like I said, the experiment is working so I will continue to monitor it and see if he gets tired of it.
Btw, I did manage to chill out re: the kids and I told him thank you for helping me to calm down. (usually all he does is get me more riled up) But he really did calm me down, once I opened my earballs and started listening to him, that is. So all is good. He is off running now, at my insistence. He never does ANYTHING for himself, except go to church, and he is always complaining about not exercising. However, he does not make an effort TO exercise, he waits for me to carve that space out for him. Oh well, I did it and I hope he is enjoying himself.
The OW...there had to be more than just being nice.....? I mean, what is that? Have you ever asked him, or is it too touchy a subject?
Oh and I have to tell you that the crayons and bubbles crack had me rolling. That is the truth!!!!!!!!!!! Like today when I got to play amateur plumber cause D2 stuffed an entire roll of TP down the toilet..
Most days are good though. This one wasn't but there's always tomorrow.
