Good job not jumping all over the the first pleasant note with a quick response. I agree w/LH be wary of her wanting something. You have an L and hopefully are well versed in your rights and what you're entitled to financially, so make sure if you do settle outside the courts it's fair for you under the law and not favorable to her.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21