glad your experiment is currently working in your favor!!
I've played this game with h long enough to take notice that things work best when I do my best to ignore him...or rather just get on with my own life as if he's too busy to be a part of it. Not the way I like it but seems to be what works...after all it is how I got him to come home...by ignoring his calls and acting like I just didn't care what he was doing. Strange kind of marriage if ya asked me but seems to work for him and in the end I guess it works for me to...when I get busy with my life he suddenly takes more interest in me...but how long will that work? since after all I can be drawn away from what I'm doing (unlike him) will I eventually get so wrapped up in my life that the tables turn? that I'm so involved in my own life and my own things that I can't/wont be drawn away by his interest?
I dunno.
as far as my persuing him? for the most part it only serves to push him away unless it's very very very subtle.
