Glutton for punishment

[LH19]

LH, what do you do at work that you have so much time to respond right away? They pay you to DB all day?

You know what I do and why I am looking for another job.

I imagine some men don’t have any game and think women love to have their looks commented on all the time. I do truly believe they believe that. But yikes, it’s weird. Maybe extra weird for me because that didn’t come later in life for me.

It is weird. If only there was a book that would teach men not to do that.

I started out this year after a huge dry spell ( thanks covid and gaining weight and losing confidence ) then I just really craved intimacy and physical touch and I did my one nighters.

I know Covid is bad but this is the first time I heard it take the blame for hoing around lol.

( 2 of them) then I met the guy I did really like and couldn’t work out. (LH, he’s the one with the 3 and 5 year old fresh divorced and has no desire to put effort into anything and liked hanging out once a month “if he had the chance” I ended that.

Ah so you touched the stove on the newly divorced and got burned. Interesting.

As for asking “how long have you been divorce” I always ask. Like 5% of the guys in my age range has been divorced greater than 2 years. Or they have never been married which loses its own challenges .

Someone who is a match, compatible enough to spend the rest of your life with is hard to find.

I imagine that age range you mention, LH is for people who are miserable on their marriages, or just coming out a marriage lost in this world. NOT ME!

Interesting you lump long term marriages and being miserable together. Yet here we preach vows, commitment, death to we part etc.

LH, dad bod is not a pear shape with man boobs. It’s a guy who might have a bit of a guy, but obviously works out and has muscles. My favorite type. 6 packs did it for me in my 20’s, but now I like a guy with meat and muscles.

I see. I think I have a dad bod.

A guy who eats cottage cheese as his favorite meal and is always in the gym and obsessed with his looks isn’t for me. Especially those who drink some crappy tasteless light beer. EEEEWWWWWW!

Interesting how society feels its ok to mock and shame someone who takes care of the most important possession a person has.

And a guy saying “you seem really cool, I would like to get to know you better” will totally get me interested. Sure, us women like to hear we are pretty, but more so once you get to know us. And I’m all about the sexy talk when we have established a connection. Not when we don’t know each other .

I do believe there is a book out there that teaches that kind of stuff.

Still not active on dating apps.

Well considering how much you hate and despise it I hope not.

Horse guy just keeps messaging me even when i don’t respond.

Who in the fuch is horse guy? If you don't want him messaging you why don't you block him?

I picked up 3 extra shifts this month. I got offered at my salaried job to fill in a blank for overtime and not comp time the way it usually is. So I took it. I work Saturday. Took another shift at the end of the month. Basically I am working 4 weekends in a row. But it’s money. I’m exhausted and burnt out, but I see dollar signs .that’s where my focus is. Might as well make the dough in the winter when there is nothing else to do.

I couldn't agree more.

My life right now is work and gym and throw in parenting and adulting.

Sounds like a great life! Stick to it, embrace it and enjoy it. You only have one.