Glutton for punishment

[BL42]

Do you all somehow know each other in real life? Because if not this seems creepy LOL

Well here’s the back story. See, Ginger and I dated for a while until LH stole her away using his coach tactics. Dawn helped Ginger see into the coach tactics LH was using so she kicked him to the curb but he still is hoping she will change her mind and take him back.

Or maybe we connected on social media. I’ll let you decide which version is really true.

I really hope it's the former! Haha

This is what I was getting at. Without a more detailed understanding of "creepy" behaviors you're experiencing it's coming across to me as men who are complimenting you on your looks (men are attracted visually) albeit a bit too much and a bit too strong. I wonder many of these are men who are genuinely attracted to you and might be good guys but don't know how to communicate it in a way that attracts them to you, and perhaps giving it a chance may lead to a deeper connection? Or maybe I'm way off base. Just a thought.

Yep. I think you are a perfect example BL. I don't know you in real life but I bet your a great guy. The story you told about the girl you were interested in and posted on her FB is a perfect example. You found out she was single and instead of just making an innocent observation on her FB page like "wow you look like you were having fun at the beach, party, whatever" you said "oh I see your single again". One opens it up for a back and forth conversation and the other is kinda stalkerish. Doesn't mean you are a stalker it just comes off that way.

Thanks for the reminder LH! ...and for pointing out that moment for everyone on here LOL

Admittedly not at all smooth. It's been a decade since I dated and definitely need to exercise the old flirting muscles I guess. And, maybe she's just not that into me regardless. Who knows.