Escaping the slow grind

[Taz]

Wow,

It took me two years to exhaust my first thread. I come here and read daily but don't post much. My STBXW is a vanisher. I've not spoken to her in over a year but get a business text every few months. My Sons are growing up and I still support them as needed. They have minimal contact with her.


It amazes me how the long time posters on here are typically 100% correct when diagnosing the MCLers. I would have swore my wife was not in an EA or PA in the first year of my situation. I came to find out however that she was in a fantasy EA with a 17 year old high school high boy who she met while chaperoning a school Europe trip 6 months prior to BD. This explains her obsessing over the HS football and basketball teams the first year of BD as he was on the teams. A friend clued me into this about 6 moths ago. It gave me the answers that I needed. She is messed up.

I'm doing well. Got great friends and family support. I have no issues living alone. Have been working out like a madman and galling at every opportunity. looking forward to a great 2022.

Taz