WAW Hired a Divorce Coach (Cont10.)

[BL42]

BL, you make a good point. But the problem is that you cannot control your spouse.

Understood, hence the "But, as is pointed out here, that's not up to us.". Just pointing out it seems the "better off" comments don't necessarily factor in the "what could have been". But completely understand that depends on both parties and we can only control on our actions.