STBXW has not seen S22 or S20 since Mother’s Day. She dropped off Xmas gifts for both on the front porch on 1/7. She only lives 3 miles away seems odd she waited till both were gone and won’t be back for a couple months.
This is the most bizarre thing to me - not that it's unique to your situation - but how can a parent and especially mother completely cut off and ignore their children? I get the WAS/WS blaming the LBS (even if it's misguided/misdirected), but the children? I guess it goes to show sometimes people are just running away from anything in their past to be happy.
Originally Posted by Taz
I’m still galling and becoming more detached every day.
Glad to hear it!
Originally Posted by DnJ
Before signing any agreement let a lawyer look it over.
Originally Posted by kml
Yes, definitely get a lawyer to review.
Originally Posted by Taz
I plan on having agreement reviewed by a L before I sign of course.
Completely agree on having a L review before making anything official. You don't have to tell her you're doing so or have the L involved, but it's important agreement and justifies a professional review even if it's just for peace of mind that you didn't miss anything.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
