the thing that no one's mentioning is age playing a factor. single people of a certain age are single for a multiplicity of reasons which add up to one thing: we're not young, fresh and without baggage.
I tried the online thing. It was a huge turnoff for me. I won't venture back. If I date at all it's going to be meeting someone organically in the wild, as it were ... I feel much safer taking my chances there, but diff strokes for diff folks ...
