the thing that no one's mentioning is age playing a factor. single people of a certain age are single for a multiplicity of reasons which add up to one thing: we're not young, fresh and without baggage.

I tried the online thing. It was a huge turnoff for me. I won't venture back. If I date at all it's going to be meeting someone organically in the wild, as it were ... I feel much safer taking my chances there, but diff strokes for diff folks ...


M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver