It has been my experience, LH, that some men have equally high expectations. But, why is having high expectations a bad thing?
No it's not a bad thing on an individual basis but when I read stats that the avg. man has to send 120 messages to get one returned it seems insane to me. Don't get me wrong the majority of the reason OLD is not working is because of men but I also think women over value themselves.
I will say this to the day I die. One of the biggest lies ever told is when a woman says "All I want is a nice guy".