Don I know you are quite a bit older but this isn’t 1950. A woman will generally sleep with a guy within 2-3 dates as long as he doesn’t talk or act his way out of it. No way am I making a commitment before 2-3 dates. This is normal middle age female behavior. Ginger fed you a bunch of $hit and you ate it up on your quest to squash online dating. It’s becoming sad Don.