Another year in life of

[Dawn70]

When I was single, I was not so much into it because I was more of a dating with a purpose kind of person.

So when you were dating you didn't like hanging out with the guy? You didn't like having fun with the guy? You didn't like having sex with the guy? What's the point of dating then?

Of course I wanted to find someone I liked to hang out with and have fun with but in order to have sex with someone, I needed an actual commitment, so one of the Hs didn't work for me without having some actual relationship structure. As I have said several times, I'm not saying HHH isn't a thing or it is bad or anything. I'm just saying it doesn't work for everyone and I'm one who it doesn't happen to work for. Not my style. Is it wrong? Not my place to say whether it is wrong for others, but it is wrong for me. If it works for you, good for you. If it doesn't work for you, good for you. Everyone is different.