I don't have a hard time understanding it. It just a semantics thing or maybe a mindset I guess. Of course I enjoy HHH with my husband, but I guess I just don't think of it that way (that is where the mindset part comes in...LOL). When I was single, I was not so much into it because I was more of a dating with a purpose kind of person. Different strokes for different folks, I guess.


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids