LH: on the divorce actually happening, maybe disbelief isn't quite the right word. I don't know how to describe the feeling.

On her being unhinged or a lunatic - nah, I'm not going back through it. Bottomline, reading back through everything continues to let me know that its healthiest for it to end and for me to move on.

BL: I agree with everything you wrote.

Ugh. Hurts my heart what you went through with your kids. Those are hard moments.

CW: All and all Christmas was fine, just a little sad being the first one. And it made me very sad that my daughter was crying that night. All I can do is my best to be there for her.

Anyhow, thanks All!