Well, that’s what I am saying. I haven’t met anyone special. People want to HHH as long as it stays superficial. The second someone has to give an actual effort ( and by effort, I don’t mean it is hard, it’s just showing that you are looking forward to seeing the person, planning and coordinating, etc)
I am also fine alone until I find someone special. Haven’t in years. And I just don’t have it in me right now to deal with the bad to get to the good