he went to individual councelling a bit during seperation (to figure out why he still wanted to take care of me) but I don't believe he was ever fully honest with the therapist (I spoke to her annonomously once and when I then let her know who I was she sounded pretty shocked and then HAD to tell h I spoke to her...I imagine he was witholding info...ow, that we weren't in any c together etc.)
He stopped going as soon as he decided he might come home...refused to go to c with me until I myself after a while of not seeing any improvements in the r called a d lawyer and scheduled an appointment. He was then willing to go but it was a waiste of time as we did nothing there but fight and it was not productive.
At this point I doubt he'd be willing to go back and I don't even want to so...
