I don't know what R2C said exactly but I know it's often framed as women don't fight to be right they fight to be heard.
I think that was the core of his message. That women are arguing for different reasons and men want to be right and then aren't hearing the woman - in other words, men aren't understanding the message that is being conveyed.
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It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.